#43

I mark clear boundaries when I am beginning a “hook up.” For example, if we have been kissing for a while and I want to go further I will explicitly say, “I don’t want to have sex tonight” or “I don’t want to take my pants off tonight” so the expectations are clear from the beginning. If during a hook up I change my mind about something I’ll say, “Let’s not do that anymore, let’s do ___ instead.”

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