I talk with my potential partner about the kinds of sex acts that pleasure me, what I like and don’t like.  I talk about how during sex I might like to be restrained in specific ways beforehand–that was a pretty sexy and awesome conversation.  I have these conversations with someone who I know will be responsive to my emotions if anything changes during sexual interaction.  That’s not hard because she has already been perceptive of my needs in other ways.


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