#10

Extremely simple. “Do you want to have sex?” or “Can I go down on you?” or (with my hand moving south) “Is this okay?” . As a straight man, I’ved asked this every time I’ve had sex, and the extremely moderate risk of embarrassment or “killing the mood” is well worth it for the assurance that our actions are fully consensual.

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